12 THINGS

By Vernalee

For those who study numerology, it is known that the number 12 symbolizes completion or perfection. Interestingly, the number 12 is used 187 times in the Bible. Not to overload your circuits but just for the fun of it, let’s review 12 Things to Remember, 12 Processes of Successful people, and a few tidbits about Happiness. Read along. Shall we? 12 things to always remember: 1. The past cannot be changed. 2. Opinions don’t define your reality. 3. Everyone’s journey is different. 4. Things always get better with time. 5. Judgments are confessions of character. 6. Overthinking will lead to sadness. 7. Happiness is found within. 8. Positive thoughts create positive things. 9. Smiles are contagious. 10. Kindness is free. 11. You only fail if you quit. 12. What goes around comes around. After you remember those 12 things and if you crave success, you need to know the composition of successful people: Successful people do these things: 1. They create and pursue focused goals. 2. They take decisive and immediate action. 3. They focus on being productive, not being busy. 4. They make logical, informed decisions. 5. They avoid the trap of trying to make things perfect. 6. They work outside of their comfort zones. 7. They keep things simple. 8. They focus on making small, continuous improvements. 9. They measure and track their progress. 10. They maintain a positive attitude as they learn from their mistakes. 11. They spend time with the motivational people. 12. They maintain balance in their life. No matter what we try, whether we succeed or fail, we want to be happy. The Happiness Rules are simple and they do not number 12. Take a look. 1. Make peace with your past. Don’t let it disturb your present. 2. What other people think of you is none of your business. 3. Time heals almost everything. Give it time. 4. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 5. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is about. 6. Stop thinking too much. It’s okay not to know the answers; they will come to you when you least expect it. 7. Smile. You don’t own all of the world’s problems. Are you tired of reading? I know that it is a lot to absorb, but if we integrate a few of these things, we will be happier campers. Sometimes, we have to keep reminding ourselves that Rome wasn’t built in a day. Thus, we didn’t get where we are over night. It is imperative that we keep our eyes focused on our journey. If we keep pursuing positive things; our actions will reflect them. I close by saying when someone does something wrong, don’t forget the good things that they have done. You May have to step back and ask, “Will this matter in a year?” Photo credit: thinkinclusive.us;Source: www.twitter.com; www.en.paperblog.com; www.pininterest.com

LIP SERVICE

By Vernalee

Lip service is defined as insincere support or respect expressed but not put into practice. Technically, one is serviced by words only. Words are so easy to say. They can be free flowing and come a dime a dozen. Talk is cheap. besides, some people like to hear themselves talk! I'm sure you know a few! Getting on a microphone and shouting words out only mean that you were talking and heard. Backing up what was said is the challenge! Actions always speak louder than words ... everyday of the week. Truly, it (action) is the only thing that can be measured. So, for those serious minded people, the results are measured when you … stop talking and start doing! Photo credit: Www.thecelebritypix.com

MIXED SIGNALS

By Vernalee

Either the traffic light is green or red; but it changes to yellow in between. Water is hot or cold; but sometimes it is warm. The matter is either black or white; but occasionally it is gray. There is always a middle point; a point of neutrality. No worries ... because these are inanimate objects. When this happens in your everyday situations, it becomes a different story. The difficulty on reading the signals from people when their behaviors are unclear is challenging. You can be encyclopedic smart, but may have to get a second opinion on confusing actions. Some folks are masters of saying one thing and doing another. They can toss out mixed signals with the velocity of a high speed decathlon throw. Consequentially, it muddles your thinking. Stop daydreaming, smell the roses, and interpret their actions for what they really are. Ultimately, the colors as you travel will be green, red, or yellow. You will be able to “go, stop, or slow down.” More importantly, you will stop worrying about other folks mixed signals and travel at your own speed! Photo reprint: www.clipartbest.com