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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


13 THINGS MENTALLY STRONG WOMEN DON’T DO
By Vernalee How strong are you? Sometimes, we never know our strength until we are faced with situations that test us. Check out this mental strength test. Mentally and emotionally strong women don’t do the following: 1. "They Don’t Compare Themselves to Other People. 2. They Don’t Insist on Perfection. 3. They Don’t See Vulnerability as a Weakness. 4. They Don’t Let Self-Doubt Stop Them from Reaching Their Goals. 5. They Don’t Overthink Everything. 6. They Don’t Avoid Tough
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3 hours ago1 min read


DON’T WORRY ABOUT TOMORROW
By Vernalee The phrase - “Don’t worry about tomorrow is often used to encourage mindfulness and to trust that each day brings its own challenges and blessings, rather than dwelling on potential future difficulties.” The Bible tells us in Matthew 6:34 - “34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Rely on God for his covering and provisions. Besides - Tomorrow will have its own troubles and anxietie
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1 day ago1 min read


A MOMENT ON THE LIPS CAN BE A LIFETIME ON THE HIPS
By Vernalee A moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips is a saying that means "a small pleasurable indulgence (like a tasty but high calorie food) will have lasting consequences, usually referring to weight gain from overeating. Let's break this phrase down even further. A moment on the lips - This part signifies the brief enjoyment of something delicious, as it only takes a moment to taste food on your lips. A lifetime on the hips - This part indicates the long-term effect
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2 days ago1 min read


I AM BLACK. I AM WHITE.
By Vernalee The interpretation of this statement is as follows: "There are those who would consider this as smartness on the part of the zebra. But that's because those people are not paying attention to the catch word "actually". It means the zebra tells the black horse, "I was lying to the white horse. I'm black". Imagine someone dealing with you and presenting a certain front or personality to you and then meets with another person and presenting an opposite personality. H
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3 days ago1 min read


TODAY IS A NEW DAY...I SMILE
By Vernalee Today is a new day! God woke me up this morning. I have reasons to be thankful. I have reasons to be grateful. I have reasons to smile! With a smile stretching from ear to ear, I thank you LORD for your grace, your covering of me and my children/grands, your mercy, and another day of life to enjoy your bountiful love. I thank you for the blessings of my family and dear friends. I thank you from the moons to the stars for your love, mercy, and grace. I smile!
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4 days ago1 min read


HOW TO PRAY
By Vernalee Prayer, simply put, is conversation with God. Having said that, shouldn’t we be doing it in a way that pleases Him? We should learn how to talk with Him, and share our concerns, fears, desires, troubles, pleas, and our every thought. We should pray to God freely. The Bible says a lot about prayer, including Jesus’ words on how to pray. His model, The Lord’s Prayer is found in Matthew 6:9-13. It reads: 9 In this manner, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven, Hal
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5 days ago2 min read


A TREE’S BEAUTY LIES IN ITS ROOT
The roots provide the foundation. It is the roots that gives it strength. In that regard, a writer once wrote, “Our stories and pasts are our roots. If taken away, we would not flourish into healthy plants/people. Difficult stories and experiences are beneath the surface for many of us and are critical for our survival – let us never forget them. I am not my past but without it I would not be standing. I have learnt this - and it has become my source of strength. Learning to
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6 days ago1 min read


BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER
By Vernalee Beauty is in the eye of the beholder is a proverb meaning that beauty cannot be judged objectively, for what one person finds beautiful or admirable may not appeal to another. Beauty can be found in everything and everyone. We just have to be open and open our eyes to see! Now - Behold … and see the beauty glittering from eye to eye! Photo credit: redbubbles
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Feb 51 min read
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