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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


FOR WHATEVER IT'S WORTH, IT'S NEVER TOO LATE ...
By Vernalee The phrase, For Whatever It’s Worth - categorizes feelings that may not be useful, significant, or acknowledged to be helpful by the listener. No matter the age, it’s never to late to set sails to be what you desire; to accomplish your goals. Whether there are ears that hear/validate what you say or do, it is left up to you to accomplish your goals. Besides, we have to live with ourselves and measure up to our standards; right? When and if we fall short, I say, “
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6 hours ago1 min read


DON'T WAIT FOR THE PERFECT MOMENT
By Vernslee “There is no “perfect” moment. Make your move now. Throw caution to the wind and set sail for uncharted waters. The right time is now! Don’t spend your life living other people’s dreams.” Timing is everything. It’s time to “do you!” Photo credit: pininterest
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1 day ago1 min read


MEMORIAL DAY - A DAY TO HONOR
By Vernalee Today is more than a day off! It's more than a day of parades! Memorial Day is an American holiday, observed on the last Monday of May, honoring the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. What a sacrifice those fallen heroes made! Today, we honor their memories!
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2 days ago1 min read


I LOVE THE LORD
By Vernalee And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and love your neighbor as yourself.” Luke 10:27 Saying you love someone is easy. It’s a mere utterance of words. Showing someone that you love them goes beyond lip service. It requires actions. If we can show love to others, we are doing exactly what God desires. The love starts with loving God in all things with your he
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3 days ago1 min read


LOVE WHAT YOU DO, DO WHAT YOU LOVE
By Vernalee Four words said two different ways - "Do what you love; Love what you do." How simple! How difficult to accomplish! It's magic when you find your passion and can satisfy that craving. I have found mine's! I love the feeling! It makes me feel complete, warm, and fuzzy! I even get excited! I love doing what I love and loving what I do! If you have found that magical formula, I know that you do too!
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4 days ago1 min read


CHARGE IT TO MY HEAD, NOT MY HEART
By Vernalee Growing up, I remember hearing my Mother say, "Charge it to my head, not my heart." Translated simply, it means that a person will not always remember certain key things and/or that a person gets busy and just forgets. You can substitute the word blame for charge to get a clearer definition. The phrase is a term of endearment in that the mind may forget, but the heart remembers. So when I error and make mistakes (particularly forgetting something that I should r
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5 days ago1 min read


DIVERSITY IS BEING INVITED TO THE PARTY. INCLUSION IS BEING ASKED TO DANCE.
By Vernalee Diversity and inclusion expert Verna Myers, a star of the TED Talk Series states that “overcoming prejudice starts with identifying our unconscious biases and trying to rewire our brains to welcome differences and think more inclusively.“ Verna (no biological relations, but similar in spirit) a Harvard educated attorney coined the expression, “Diversity is being invited to the party; inclusion is being asked to dance.” Thus, if you are anything like me, we have p
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6 days ago1 min read


TWO FACED PEOPLE
TWO FACED PEOPLE Two faced people … I know you know them! They are hypocrites and live up to the meaning of the title. They say and do one thing in your presence and are completely opposite behind your back. Of course, they are not to be trusted …even when you are looking at them! I find them to be despicable! What about you? Remember the sage advice of Dr. Maya Angelou, “The first time people show you who they are, believe them!” Photo credit: www.greetingskit.com
Vernalee
May 201 min read
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