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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


BE ON GUARD WITH YOUR WORDS
We have heard many times about the danger of excessive and unnecessary talking. Our words can have loving consequences or they can have the opposite effect - namely damaging. Once we say It, we cannot take it back. Thus, We have to be on guard with our words. The Bible tells us about this. In James 3:5 we are told that “The tongue is a small thing, but what enormous damage it can do . . . “ Proverbs 21:23 - He who guards his mouth and his tongue, Guards his soul from troubles
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1 hour ago1 min read


CAN YOU TAKE A DOSE OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE?
Alright .... Can you take what you give? Can you swallow a dose of your own medicine? Are you a “do as I say, not as I do” type of person? Can you take the same harmful, bad treatment, or unpleasant things that you have inflicted on others? Can you sustain an attack in the same manner in which you attack someone else? Before you say that they had it coming to them, who are you to be the executor and the judge? The time has come to see what you are really made of... Is it suga
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1 day ago3 min read


ARE YOU IN A WAR ZONE ... WHILE WORKING?
By Vernalee Many viewers tuned in for years on Thursday’s nights to watch Kerry Washington in her role as Scandal’s star, Olivia Pope, a crisis management expert to the President and high profiled individuals. However, some of us need not wait to see the weekly series now in re-runs, when we can get a daily snapshot of scandalous activities in our respective workplaces! The intriguing/ inappropriate accompaniments – lies, harassment, innuendos – are included in the roundup
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2 days ago1 min read


WORKING HARD OR HARDLY WORKING
By Vernalee According to the definition " to work hard means to work a lot, to work using much effort. While to hardly work means the complete opposite, namely to work very little. Though a play on words, I am sure that you can start rattling off names of people who fit both categories. One of my favorites is a person that I know who spends hours trying to figure out how not to work! Geez! I often wonder where he would be if he exerted that same amount of time and energy
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3 days ago2 min read


WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS
By Vernalee With The Lord by our side, you don't need anyone else. Walk with him! Talk with him! Lay your burdens down before him. He will never leave you or forsake you. God hears and answers prayers. Because of his love, he shelters us and make our load lighter. What a mighty God we serve! I can't help but proclaim What a friend we have in Jesus! Happy Sunday! God bless!
Vernalee
4 days ago1 min read


IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHERE YOU’RE GOING, ANY ROAD WILL TAKE YOU THERE
By Vernalee Are you wandering? Do you know where you’re going or are you just traveling? You have to choose your destination. If you don’t, you may land anywhere - on the road and in life!
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5 days ago1 min read


RELATIONSHIPS LEAVE STUFF BEHIND
By Vernalee When we are involved in relationships (personal and professional) , it is serious business! Attachments are formed. Familiarity becomes a standard. When our relationships work, it is a great thing! When they don’t, discontentment is our by-product. Getting rid of the bad apples and walking away are not always easy tasks. Challenging, isn’t it? Therefore, it is imperative that we are careful and selective about who we let into our lives and into our precious space.
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6 days ago1 min read


MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN IS SHINING
By Vernalee Being from a small town in the Mississippi cotton belt, I love farming analogies. They are so similar to life occurrences. "Make hay while the sun is shining" is one of them. In other words, if you have an opportunity to do something, do it before the opportunity expires; do it when the situation and conditions are right! Take advantage of favorable circumstances. A good crop/harvest doesn't just happen! It takes hard work. It is imperative to cultivate and till
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Jul 231 min read
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