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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


KNOW YOUR WORTH
By Vernalee Do you know your worth? "People try to define themselves by defining you, and you looking bad makes them feel or look better. You’re the one to know your own worth. The truth is, if you don’t appreciate yourself and accept yourself for who you are, there’s very little chance someone else will do that for you." The bottom line - Know your worth! Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
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LORD ...LIFT ME UP AND LET ME STAND. PLANT MY FEET ON HIGHER GROUND
https://youtu.be/LdX0s5NTfrY By Vernalee As I come to you Heavenly Father on bended knees, I pray. I start my worship this Sunday by being thankful; thankful for life; thankful for good health; thankful for so many, many blessings. As I remain prayerful, keep me steadfast in your Word. When my days are filled with issues; some that I can quickly solve; others, not, I ask that you guide me, provide me with knowledge, and show me the way. When I'm down, please Lord lift me. I a
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MY GOOD FRIEND
By Vernalee I call her my BFF; my bestie. She’s been there for me (as I for Her). She supports me and never judges me. I’m grateful that she has shared my past, celebrate my present … as we walk/move our friendship into the future. Thank you my friend for sticking with me! What more can I ask?
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2 days ago1 min read


ARE YOU A PERSON OF YOUR WORD?
By Vernalee Are you a man or woman of your word? Do you do what you say? Is your word your bond? Does a handshake deal mean anything anymore? Listen Up! When you tell folks that you will do something, you create an expectation. In some cases, that expectation forms a reliance. So when you don’t execute on what you committed to do, not only were you untruthful, you disappointed and failed people who relied upon your word/commitment. Untruthfulness damages when your actions
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3 days ago1 min read


NO PLACE FOR HATE
By Vernalee One of my favorite quotes in the Diversity, Equity & Inclusion area is this one by the late great Nelson Mandela. We need to eradicate prejudices. Our world needs love … lots of love. It starts with me! It starts with you! The residual is a better world for all of us. Photo credit: pininterest
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4 days ago1 min read


FOR WHATEVER IT'S WORTH, IT'S NEVER TOO LATE ...
By Vernalee The phrase, For Whatever It’s Worth - categorizes feelings that may not be useful, significant, or acknowledged to be helpful by the listener. No matter the age, it’s never to late to set sails to be what you desire; to accomplish your goals. Whether there are ears that hear/validate what you say or do, it is left up to you to accomplish your goals. Besides, we have to live with ourselves and measure up to our standards; right? When and if we fall short, I say, “
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5 days ago1 min read


DON'T WAIT FOR THE PERFECT MOMENT
By Vernslee “There is no “perfect” moment. Make your move now. Throw caution to the wind and set sail for uncharted waters. The right time is now! Don’t spend your life living other people’s dreams.” Timing is everything. It’s time to “do you!” Photo credit: pininterest
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6 days ago1 min read


MEMORIAL DAY - A DAY TO HONOR
By Vernalee Today is more than a day off! It's more than a day of parades! Memorial Day is an American holiday, observed on the last Monday of May, honoring the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. What a sacrifice those fallen heroes made! Today, we honor their memories!
Vernalee
May 251 min read
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