Stuff We Talk About

Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee Yes, technology via my cell phone and other gadgets has eliminated facets of my memory. I confess! I came to the realization of this very fact last week. My late Mother in her 90’s could rattle off dates, addresses, and phone numbers from her memory. I cannot any more. Holy cow! How did that happen? Let's see! Without question, my Mother was wise and brilliant! DING! DING! Added to that fact and equally as important, Mother relied on her mind to provide the answer

By Vernalee It’s time! We should open our hearts. Showing love and compassion is the first step. With an opened heart, we take our burdens to the Lord. The old folks in Mississippi would say, “Turn it over to God and leave it there. He will fix it!” We can find comfort in his Word; in his guidance. In the Book of Philippians 4: 6-7, we read: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to Go

By Vernalee This expression, "I can't put my finger on it" - means to not be able to say/distinguish exactly what is wrong or different about a particular situation. Perhaps like you, I have found myself using that phrase, more often than not. I may see or hear something that doesn't look or feel right, but at that point in time, I may not have a clue to what it is. Like most things in life, time always tell. The cream always rises to the top. That instinctive feeling whi

By Vernalee A moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips is a saying that means "a small pleasurable indulgence (like a tasty but high calorie food) will have lasting consequences, usually referring to weight gain from overeating. Let's break this phrase down even further. A moment on the lips - This part signifies the brief enjoyment of something delicious, as it only takes a moment to taste food on your lips. A lifetime on the hips - This part indicates the long-term effect

By Vernalee Have you ever had a talk with yourself? I have! It's a conversation of reasoning - your thoughts before you. It's my innermost thoughts talking to me about what to say; what actions to take; what to do. Sometimes I'm perplexed. Sometimes, my conversations can provide clear directions - other times not. I'm driven to quiet times to figure things out. I realize that the answer is deeper than me, myself, and I. Also, What I do extends beyond me, myself, and I. It’s

By Vernalee ”Forgiving you is my gift to you. Moving on is my gift to me.” The past is the past. Some things should be left there. Moving on can be so therapeutic. Sure, in many cases, this is easier said than done. The move may take tremendous courage and intestinal fortitude. However, once you begin the process, the transition cleanse your soul. It may become fundamentally necessary that you baptize yourself in what it takes to move your body, mind, and soul to a healthy a

By Vernalee "Your word is your bond" means your spoken promise is as binding as a formal contract, emphasizing integrity, trustworthiness, and keeping commitments; it signifies that your reliability is built on doing what you say you'll do, forming the foundation for trust in relationships. “ When you give your word to someone, there is a reliance by the hearer that you will do what you said. If you don’t, not only does it reflect your lack of integrity, but it can be a great

By Vernalee Do you know your worth? "People try to define themselves by defining you, and you looking bad makes them feel or look better. You’re the one to know your own worth. The truth is, if you don’t appreciate yourself and accept yourself for who you are, there’s very little chance someone else will do that for you." The bottom line - Know your worth! Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.