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Stuff We Talk About
By Vernalee
Thank you for visiting our site, “Stuff we talk about.”
Born out of discussions with my female colleagues and daughter, this site provides intimate and often times funny stories about our life experiences.
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ARE YOU DIGGING A DITCH FOR SOMEONE TO FALL IN? DIG TWO! YOU MAY LAND IN ONE OF THEM.
Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...
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Jun 5, 20191 min read


TRUST IN THE LORD
By Vernalee Reflecting on the old time gospels such as "I will trust in the Lord" takes you to a place of peace. It helps you to recognize the presence of God and the serenity that it brings. Proverbs 3: 5, 6 says " Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take." Trusting in the Lord bears the fruit of knowing that he will take care of you. There is no better feeling tha
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PRAYER CHANGES THINGS
By Vernalee I start and end my day with a daily prayer. My prayers are personal as they provide an opportunity for me to be thankful and communicate directly with our Heavenly Father. 🙏🏽 Jesus provided us with the foundation on how to pray. In Matthew 6:5-8, Jesus taught, “When you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men … but when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray t
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LET GOD BE YOUR GPS. YOU'LL NEVER GET LOST.
By Vernalee Since I am direction-ally challenged, one of the best inventions ever was the GPS! GPS’s can take you directly to your destination. Your only job is to put in the address. I love them! They're everywhere now - cell phones and all! Needless to say, all mechanical devices have their shortcomings. Some GPS systems can route you around construction zones, but they cannot see or predict other deviations that might take you off course. However, I have founded the b
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2 days ago1 min read


WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE!
By Vernalee This is one of my favorite post. Though directed to women, I am sure that my male followers will enjoy as well. As I read "What every woman should know and have," I need to work to achieve several items. At least, now I have a road map! Nobody can say it like Dr. Angelou! I share her words with you! A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … by Maya Angelou A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or
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3 days ago2 min read


TRUST BUT VERIFY
By Vernalee Trust but verify “is a phrase that means to believe something is true while also making sure it's true. It can be used as a diplomatic principle, a management strategy, or a leadership principle. In leadership, trust but verify promotes empowerment and accountability. “ Never assume that someone did what was required or ask. Trust the process, but verify the action. Otherwise, you may be left with egg on your face … which is not a good look!
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4 days ago1 min read


YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU NEVER TAKE/STAY IN THE GAME
By Vernalee Considered one of NBA"s greatest player, Michael Jordan once stated “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” Those words carry an awe inspiring and powerful message. Think about it! If the greatest pushed himself, why don't we? You can't win if you give up. You can't win if you d
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5 days ago1 min read


FEAR HAS TWO MEANINGS
By Vernalee Let's cut through the chase. It's completely your call; your decision to make. No one is twisting your arm. It's time to face the music. When and if you are fearful of the next step or if you should make a move at all (which is not out of the ordinary; it's only human - when you don't know what comes next or what to do), you can either - Forget everything and run or Face everything and rise. Which will it be? Think it over! Pray about it! Choose Wisely! You w
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6 days ago1 min read


JESUS IS LOVE
By Vernalee Written by Lionel Richie, "Jesus is Love" has powerful lyrics. A song of my generation, it shows that God uses various methods to deliver his message. You can receive a heart felt message from a number of sources; music being one. In the 1970’s, this song found its way into my spirit. It moves me now just as much as it did then. A few years ago, it was played at an ominous time that I will never forget … which is why when I hear the song now, the memory of that
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Apr 262 min read
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