Stuff We Talk About

Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

The roots provide the foundation. It is the roots that gives it strength. In that regard, a writer once wrote, “Our stories and pasts are our roots. If taken away, we would not flourish into healthy plants/people. ⁠Difficult stories and experiences are beneath the surface for many of us and are critical for our survival – let us never forget them. I am not my past but without it I would not be standing. I have learnt this - and it has become my source of strength. Learning to

By Vernalee There have been a number of theories and quotes on the types of friends who walk through our lives. For me, the version that hit the nail on the head is outlined in Bishop T. D. Jakes’ sermon on “3 Types of Friends.” Bishop Jakes called them, “Confidants, constituents, and comrades.” The confidants are people who are for you. Your confidants love you unconditionally. Confidants weep with you, rejoice with you, and are happy for you….Confidants will make sure th

By Vernalee It hit me like a ton of bricks. I would not in a million years have thought that the person in question could be that ruthless or sinister. Did you? She didn’t look like she would hurt a fly. How many times must we be reminded that looks are deceiving? So when I heard of the betrayal, I was flabbergasted; speechless to be exact! What hypocrisy! I don’t know why I was startled! Jesus was betrayed by one who was within his midst! Why would I expect anything differ

By Vernalee There has been a number of theories and quotes on the types of friends who walk through our lives. For me, the version that hits the nail on the head is outlined in Bishop T. D. Jakes’ sermon on “3 Types of Friends.” Bishop Jakes called them, “Confidants, constituents, and comrades.” 1. The confidants are people who are for you. Your confidants love you unconditionally. Confidants weep with you, rejoice with you, and are happy for you….Confidants will make sur

By Vernalee I’m often reminded of “the classic opening to the famous Girl Scouts' campfire round! It’s a simple but beautiful reminder that while new connections (silver) bring fresh energy and excitement, long-standing friends (gold) offer a depth of history that can’t be replaced.” New connections and old ones - we need them both! They both bring special meaning in our lives. I’m thankful for both my silver and gold friends…What would I do without them? Their love, guidanc

By Vernalee There is such much truth in the quote - “Small minds discuss people. Average minds discuss events. Great minds discuss ideas.” The operative question become what category do you fall into? Be honest! Next … what category fits your associates, particularly those for which you spend the majority of your time? Of course, we know a few other things as well. Just as “Great minds think alike;” “Birds of the same feather flock together.” Lest not forget, “Bad association

https://youtu.be/LdX0s5NTfrY By Vernalee As I come to you Heavenly Father on bended knees, I pray. I start my worship this Sunday by being thankful; thankful for life; thankful for good health; thankful for so many, many blessings. As I remain prayerful, keep me steadfast in your Word. When my days are filled with issues; some that I can quickly solve; others, not, I ask that you guide me, provide me with knowledge, and show me the way. When I'm down, please Lord lift me. I a

By Vernalee A one way friend is a term not to be discounted. There is such a thing. Friends are not necessarily transferable. My friend may not be yours and vice versa. Compatibility is a huge factor in friendships. Be careful who you let inside your circle. Every one who's in may not be there to stay. There are conditions that determine duration. Under no circumstance should you play matchmaker with your friends (i.e. trying to make your friend someone else's). Let y