Stuff We Talk About

Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee It’s easy to get ahead of yourself. You should not count on something before it happens. Don’t go to great extremes, making plans for your anticipation. What if the inevitable does not occur. Then what! Be realistic. Variables, some unexpected, can change circumstances and outcomes. Continue to work hard to produce the desired results. If you are prepared with realistic expectations and if the chicken doesn’t pop out of the egg shell, then nothing is lost. If t

By Vernalee “When push comes to shove" means when a situation reaches a critical or urgent point, requiring decisive action or a final choice. It describes what will happen as a last resort or when normal, easy methods are no longer enough. ” So when you get in hot water, it’s time for a decision. It’s no longer a push. It’s a shove!

By Vernalee Love is a feeling that we desire. Absence a heartbreak or two, it makes us feel heavenly... most of the time. "Love is also a heartfelt emotion that comes automatically for a person as you will feel it in your heart. It penetrates your soul. And when that happens, your love will automatically pour out for the person just like rain. A true human heart should love without differentiating. Rain, when it falls does not choose the grass on which it will fall. For a

By Vernalee This song engulfs your soul. It's powerful message moves your spirit. The more we do the works of the Lord, the better off we are. To see things through God's lens gives us a wholesome perspective. It teaches us so much about sacrifices, love, and forgiveness. That is why we pray, sing, and ask the Lord to “open the eyes of our hearts” so that we can see him and his good works. Sometimes, we miss what is right before our eyes! We worship you Lord and give etern

By Vernalee Choices. What should I do? How should I handle this situation? Decisions, decisions, decisions! There are so many thoughts that enter our minds when it’s time to make choices; time to decide the next step. It is particularly difficult when the history of our relationships have not been exemplary. Do we follow course on how we were treated, or do we follow the course of our moral compass? What if the treatment against us was bad? The optimal choice is to do what’

By Vernalee This year more than ever we should celebrate Juneteenth. Allow me to share some history on the significance of the day. "Juneteenth is now a federal holiday commemorating the emancipation to enslaved African Americans. Historically, Union army general Gordon Granger's read federal orders in the city of Galveston, Texas, on June 19, 1865, proclaiming that all slaves in Texas were now free. Celebrations date back to 1866 to church-centered community gatherings in Te

By Vernalee Did you hear the message? Admittedly, we really are selective listeners. Sometimes, we hear what we want to hear and block out what we don't. Do we hear the words, but miss the meaning? Do we become too anxious to reply whereby our concentration is dwarfed more toward our reply than toward our understanding of what was really said? So as not to have the message lost in translation and miss the true meaning, it is necessary that we be attentive and stay in tune.

By Vernalee ”God gave you two ears and one mouth,” was an expression that my Mother regularly used with me. You see, she knew that her baby girl had a “motor mouth” and talked incessantly, (even occasionally in her sleep). To grow, you have to stop talking all the time; you have to listen. You learn more when you do. When you listen, you can even hear what others are saying about you. How about that! For sure, that reason in and of itself should move you to shut up! Photo cre