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Although my mother went home to be with the Lord, she told me something years ago that I will never forget. I want to pass on the same...

By Vernalee We use metaphors from time to time to bring home a point. They tend to help us see a situation clearer. “ An Elephant in the room ” is an metaphorical idiom that refers to an obvious truth that is going unaddressed or to an obvious problem or risk that no one wants to discuss. It is so profound as this expression is focused around the idea or thought that an elephant because of its sheer size would be impossible to overlook. Agreed? Admittedly, there are times

By Vernalee According to many experts, Monday Morning Blues are real! The term refers to the “sadness, anxiety, or lack of motivation that we might feel at the start of the workweek. It's a common emotional response to the transition from the leisure of the weekend to the structure and demands of the workweek. Responding to Monday blues effectively involves adopting strategies that can uplift your mood and change your perspective on Mondays. You might try to: Engage in enjoya

By Vernalee Starting at the Book of Genesis and ending at the Book of Revelations is a long journey. I’m beginning the challenge again. I remember the first time that I walked through the Bible in a year. I was so close to the Word. In fact, I can recall calling my Mother in tears when Moses couldn’t go into the promised land. I felt so close as the words became visionary. It’s been said that “Reading through the Bible will help you grow in your faith, in your relationship w

By. Vernalee Do you have the need to constantly make others happy?  It may come at a high price if it isn’t monitored. A realistic view is needed. “Whether it’s saying “yes” when you really want to say “no,” or constantly worrying about what others think, the pressure to please can become overwhelming. This is a common phenomenon where individuals prioritize making others happy over their own needs, often resulting in feelings of loneliness and dissatisfaction in relations

I was watching the Today Show yesterday and the coverage of this story caught my attention. It dealt with Friendships. According to the Today Show, "Studies suggest that friendships are as essential to our health, well-being and longevity as diet and exercise. As such, they list the 5 types of friends as below. Close friends - Close friends are people you've known for many years who have been with you through ups and downs. ... Lifelong friends. ... Friends of convenience.

By Vernalee Happy New Year! The countdown is officially over. 2026 is here! With it comes resolutions, goals, changes, aspirations, and so much more! I am truly thankful and blessed to see another year!  As I enter 2026, I pray for clear vision and wisdom as I pursue my spiritual, personal, and professional goals! I pray for good health and God's grace and covering for my children, grands, family/loved ones, and me. I ask that God order my steps in all walks of life. The New

By Vernalee The countdown to the New Year begins today. New Year Resolutions are not far away. What will you be doing on New Year's Eve? Will you be out at a party? Will you be in night watch service at church? Will you be in the comfort of your home with family? Wherever you are or whatever you are doing, be grateful! It truly is a blessings to see another year! It gives you the opportunity to be a better person, help others, show love and compassion, accomplish your goa

By Vernalee We are all uniquely made. Being our authentic self is the key. We have key attributes that highlight our differences. Besides, there is no one like us. Celebrate your differences rather than imitate someone's else's similarities. Stop the comparisons. Why? Just be you ... and rock it! Photo credit: pininterest