DONT TAKE PEOPLE FOR GRANTED

By Vernalee

One of the worst things that you can do is to take someone's kindness for granted. It can be heartbreaking! I learned a long time ago that no one owes me anything! Showing appreciation to those who have help me along the way and particularly to those who bent over backwards go a long way. I have had several people who have given of themselves and didn't want anything in return. I have had others who gave and never reminded me of what they had done. How sweet it is! If you ever get confused over the concept of taking someone for granted, just ask yourself one question. Would you do for them what they did for you? Your answer will reveal the magnitude of your reciprocity and the spirit and generosity of their kindness. I am thankful for my blessings and the hands who have helped me through my journeys of everyday living. In fact, to use the words of rapper greats - Big Sean, Drake, and Kanye, "Way Up, I feel blessed!" You see, I don't take demonstrated kindness, consideration, or assistance for granted. I feel duty bound to help others as I have been help ... not to show off or even up the score, but to enrich another life. One good turn deserves another! Blessings will definitely come your way! Hebrew 13:16 tells us to not take things for granted and "to not forget to do good and share with others, for with such sacrifices, God is pleased."

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ARE YOU ON THE SAME PAGE?

By Vernalee

Are you speaking the same language? Are you listening to each other? Is what is being said matches what is being done? Why do you continue to ask certain questions when the answers should be obvious? In other words, is the person “walking the talk?” Comfortably, you should be able to take a colleague's or partner's word and vice versa at face value. Nothing beats a person doing what he/she said. Keeping your word and living up to your commitment are foundational principles. If you can’t satisfy those terms, you may as well close the book altogether. In order to make substantial progress and be in agreement, being on the same page is fundamental. If you have to see, discern, or ask what page you're on after a substantial period of time, there is undoubtedly a disconnect. Being on the same page may not be the right question; remaining where you are with who you are with may be a more suitable ask! This theory applies whether it is a personal or professional relationship. Trust is too essential!

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TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF TOO MUCH

By Vernalee

If you asked someone if they bragged or talked about themselves too much, most folks would definitely say "No!" Yet, we know that there are those who talk so much about themselves that you can't get a word in edgewise. They may do so without realizing it. Occasionally, they deliver a superficial opening liner pretentiously focusing a minute of attention on someone else, before the conversation indiscriminately filters back to them. Covert deviations they have mastered! Consequently, they know very little about what's going on in your life. You, on the other hand know all of their business because they are constantly talking about themselves! Who’s worse: Those who talk too much or those who talk too little? The latter hide more than they reveal. Aw shucks. Just flip a coin to find those balanced ones who are in the middle! Better yet, heed this advice. Talk less; listen more! It pays off in the long run. You learn more too!

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