There is one word that we should not use loosely. That word is - friend! These days, I have become very selective about who I call friend. Age, maturity, wisdom, and outcomes give you discernment on the true definition of the word. The definition of a true friend even kicks up the meaning to a higher level. Know who's with you. Be careful, discerning, and selective so that you're not overly disappointed with the results particularly if who you thought would be there for you fails to show up!