KNOW WHO'S WHO

By Vernalee

There is one word that we should not use loosely. That word is - friend! These days, I have become very selective about who I call friend. Age, maturity, wisdom, and outcomes give you discernment on the true definition of the word. The definition of a true friend even kicks up the meaning to a higher level. Know who's with you. Be careful, discerning, and selective so that you're not overly disappointed with the results particularly if who you thought would be there for you fails to show up!

FRIENDS ARE THOSE RARE PEOPLE WHO ASK HOW YOU ARE AND WAIT TO HEAR THE ANSWER

”Friendships are born in a million different ways, and all good friends strive to achieve the same goal: to be a source of love and support. Finding a true friend feels like a gift that keeps on giving, even when they are thousands of miles away. A listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, being by my side … supporting me every step of the way ….through it all, you have been there. “Hey friend, do know that I appreciate and love you dearly. As my best friend, I credit you with bringing out the best in me! Thank you!

Photo credit: The positivity blog

Reference: Goodhousekeeping.come

13 THINGS MENTALLY STRONG WOMEN DON’T DO

By Vernalee

How strong are you? Sometimes, we never know our strength until we are faced with situations that test us. Check out this mental strength test.

Mentally and emotionally strong women don’t do the following:

1. "They Don’t Compare Themselves to Other People. 2. They Don’t Insist on Perfection. 3. They Don’t See Vulnerability as a Weakness. 4. They Don’t Let Self-Doubt Stop Them from Reaching Their Goals. 5. They Don’t Overthink Everything. 6. They Don’t Avoid Tough Challenges. 7. They Don’t Fear Breaking the Rules. 8. They Don’t Put Others Down to Lift Themselves Up. 9. They Don’t Let Others Limit Their Potential. 10. They Don’t Blame Themselves When Something Goes Wrong. 11. They Don’t Stay Silent. 12. They Don’t Feel Bad About Reinventing Themselves. 13. They Don’t Downplay Their Success."

What a list; right? I'm digesting it and learning as I go. What about you?