HAZ EL BIEN Y NO MIRES A QUIEN

By Vernalee

Here I go again speaking in Spanish. So I say to you today - Haz el bien y no mires a quien … which translated in English means - Do good, and don’t look at whom. This Spanish proverb encourages us to do what we think is right, no matter what people think. Let your conscience guide you. For certain, you will feel better when you do what is good and right than the alternative. This is true whether we say the words in English, French, Spanish, or any language! Doing good things is a good thing!

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KNOW WHO'S WITH YOU

By Vernalee

There is one word that we should not use loosely. That word is - friend! These days, I have become very selective about who I call friend. Age, maturity, wisdom, and outcomes give you discernment on the true definition of the word. The definition of a true friend even kicks up the meaning to a higher level. Know who's with you. Be careful, discerning, and selective so that you're not overly disappointed with the results particularly if who you thought would be there for you fails to show up!

THE WAY PEOPLE TREAT YOU

By Vernalee

You can only control your behavior and actions; not those of others. You may receive undeserved and hurtful treatment from others. You can’t change them or their inflicted actions for those are tasks that only they can do. Don’t blame yourself for their actions. By no means, should you become a contributing party to bad conduct. Stay on guard as you constantly monitor your own conduct. You are not a prisoner of their war. You have options; exercise them. You never have to subject yourself to bad treatment. You can always leave!

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