My late Momma taught me so many valuable things. Oh how I miss her! A wise woman, she was a stickler about image. In that mindset, she told me that people will say many unkind things to you and about you. Her response, "Pay them no never mind. You know who you are. Don't let untrue words sink in your soul. What matters is not what you are called, but what you answer to." Ain't that's the truth y'all!