3 WAYS - RIGHT WAY, WRONG WAY, THEIR WAY

By Vernalee

As we travel, there are tons of directional and caution signs including the Stop, Yield, Wrong Way, and others.. I’m sure that you have seen them all. Similar to the traffic signs, we also have many life directional signs and commands. Typically, there are only two major directions to follow - a right way and a wrong way. Sometimes that may change when we meet those headstrong individuals who have invented a new path to follow called “their way!” I’m sure that you have encountered one or two of these “great ones” in your journeys. With their self professed rules, it’s either “their way“ or the highway; if you know what I mean. They care not whether it’s right or wrong because their way trumps all;; remember? Stop! As my Mother would say, “God gave you a mind. Use it.”

So to those who have navigated “their way,” and expect you to follow, use your head to think for yourself. So that you don’t endure bad consequences by following someone else’s proclaimed directions/ commands, it‘s time to recognize that there is - no right way to do the wrong thing!”

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HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE

By Vernalee

“Happiness is a choice. If you have the courage to admit when you’re scared, the ability to laugh even as you cry, the nerve to speak up, even if your voice is shaking, the confidence to ask for help when you need it, and the wisdom to take it when it’s offered, then you have everything you need to get yourself to a happier state of mind. Take responsibility for your own happiness.

Here are ten ways to be happy. Here we go!

1. Choose to be the best YOU can be. ...

2. Choose to be around the right people. ...

3. Choose to focus on what you have, not on what you haven't. ...

4. Choose a good attitude. ...

5. Choose to smile more often. ...

6. Choose to take care of your body. ...

7. Choose honesty. ...

8. Choose to help others when you're able.

9. Choose to let go when you know you should…

10. Choose to embrace the next step in your life.”

I love the feeling that happiness resonates. It is so much better than its alternative. Who wants to be sad and feel heavy when you can feel light and be happy!

Don’t you agree?

The jingle of that familiar encouraging song, "Don't worry. Be happy” is playing in the background. Do you hear it?

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BE THE FRIEND THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE

By Vernalee

FRIENDSHIP. The subject is timeless; it never grows old. So let’s examine our wish list. First things first. It is unreasonable to expect from others what you are not willing to give. That sounds hypocritical…don’t you think? So whatever attributes you desire from a friend, you should be willing to give. Agreed? Fair play? Listen up as we examine some friendship guidelines. 1. Avoid competition. 2. Avoid gossip. 3. Confront wisely. 4. Forgive. 5. Maintain friendships; treat them with care. 6. Celebrate best friends. 7. Let your friendships serve as a mirror. 8. Make changes, if needed. You are allowed. 9. Create a healthy community of friends with the reality that just because you are the nucleus that your friends may not become friends to each other. 10. Give everyone their space. 11. Explore your expectations. 12. Befriend yourself. Now I ask… Who can you confidentially talk to and get the best possible advice? Who wants you to succeed no matter what? Who will be there for you when everyone walks away? Who will be there when you are up, down or in a turnaround? Answer: A true friend. Remember this. Everyone needs someone. No one is an island. Having a true friend is valuable. True friendship doesn’t come around often. If you have one true friend, you are lucky. Two – would be a steal! When you find a true friend, keep him or her close. Don’t ask for something that you are not willing to give! Think of others; do for others. Don’t be a talker only; show that you care. Cherish being a true friend as much as having a true friend! It’s a treasure! Photo credit: www.of-the-heart.com; Source: www.crosswalk.com