A WOMAN IS LIKE A TEA BAG

"A woman is like a tea bag -

you never know how strong she is

until she gets into hot water."

Eleanor Roosevelt, former First Lady

"Why is a woman like a tea bag, you may ask. It's quite simple. We don't know the strength of a tea bag until we put the tea bag into hot water.

A woman's true strength comes to the surface when she gets into hot water and then you'll see her real strength come out.

You'll see a women stand out under pressure and at that very moment you will see her determination and resolve carry the day. 

Never underestimate the strength of a woman."

Many of us first saw this incredible strength in our Mothers. A woman’s strength and ability to conquer adversity are ever so present. But I know that I’m talking to people who have witnessed this strength first hand. I am certain that I don‘t have to make you a believer out of you! Now then ... let’s have a cup of hot tea!

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WHAT PRONOUN DESCRIBES YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

By Vernalee

It is amazing how a simple pronoun tells what is going on in a relationship! Listen up!

Which pronoun will it be – I, us, we, or me? Perhaps, the better question is what pronoun does your mate use? Which pronoun describes your and his interactions? Does he say we, but his actions are more synonymous to me? Do you consider him in all of your actions while he considers only himself? Alright, let’s get a little technical. The only printed difference between me and we is the first letter. Tbe two words (We and me) even rhyme, but their meaning are vastly different; light years apart. If your collective movements and actions are congruent, all is well. However, if you and your “yours truly” are moving in two different directions, there is a problem. Perhaps, the time has come for the two of you to get off on the next exit! Single minded thinking doesn’t successfully work in relationships. Togetherness is plural. Why make it complex when the math is simple? 1+1= 2. 1+0= 1. When you are committed to each other, you consider the other person; after all, they are in the plan. Right?

Single-minded people only think of themselves so they should probably be by themselves! Just saying ..

.For those whose use of singular directed pronouns doesn't match their actions, the time may be ripe to say a noun that is fitting - Adios (Good-bye)! Why waste your time or make someone else's life miserable when you have the choice to do otherwise!

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LIFE IS AN ECHO

By Vernalee

I am a firm believer that you get back what you put out. What goes around, comes around! Even if I am wrong, you feel better when you follow the goodness of your heart. There will be times that your heart and mind may fiercely battle each other with you in the middle of the crossfire. You know what I mean. Your heart tells you to do something, but your mind tells you it's unwise. It is an ongoing balancing act. But life has a way of working things out, especially your equilibrium and reasoning. For starters, you can stop asking people to do things for you that you know that you wouldn’t do for them. Why should others walk a measured mile for you when you won’t step out an inch for them? Such actions are not only annoying, they are hypocritical. Galatians 6:7 tells us "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows." The best advice that I’ve received is to keep doing what is right. It pays off in the long run and is the better choice! Photo credit: www.pinterest.com